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Being Allowed – The Fridge That Changed My Life
…I know you are reading this poemAs the underground train loses momentum and before running up the stairstoward a new kind of loveyour life has never allowed. from Dedications XIII…
Keep readingMore on why Advice doesn’t work, and a Flying with a Baby Logistics Story
I have a story to tell about flying below, but when I finished writing this post, I figured out what I wanted as the main takeaway. So it’s at the…
Keep readingPostcard from Planet Parent #2 – More on Averages and the Looming Should
This post is a companion piece to Averages, and the Looming Should – it’s basically the pregnancy and parenting perspective on the same topic. Hoo boy, it ended up being…
Keep readingAverages, and The Looming Should
The word ‘should’ is neurodivergent kryptonite. By unpacking the shoulds each ADHDer carries around with them, it helps you to understand which ones are based on abstract ideas of how…
Keep readingYes I am overthinking things, thank you for asking
There is probably a meme of a bingo card out there that will include being told, as an ADHDer, that you’re ‘overthinking’ things when trying to make a decision. I…
Keep readingPostcard from Planet Parent #1 – Allowing Yourself a Change of Mind
There are dozens of half written blog posts behind this calm-seeming, mustard yellow exterior of a website. Not just on parenting, on all sorts of areas of ADHD that I…
Keep readingAutumn 2025 Availability, future Groups, and the scarcity mindset
Hello everyone who scrolls to the bottom of the website and/or subscribes to the blog! Now taking new clients I’ve opened up my books for limited availability – currently I’m…
Keep readingClosing out 2024 – resolutions, resources, and giving yourself some kindness
Welcome to that time of year. Again. The time of year that may have brought you here to my website. Welcome! The time of year that can be kryptonite for…
Keep readingUpdate – Having Made a Family
I keep trying to write the perfect post to update clients and those interested in becoming a client – but my big news is that I had my baby in…
Keep readingGraduation Process Update – May 2024
Hi all I have lodged my graduation application for the Certified ADHD Life Coach Certification with the iACT Center. This means I have done (beyond) the minimum hours for my…
Keep readingYou’re allowed your own version of success – Part 3 of 3
We left off at Part 2 here So, what’s the final idea to unpack when it comes to success? Exploring how I defined my own success, and recognising the times…
Keep readingYou’re allowed your own version of success – Part 2 of 3
If you haven’t already, read Part 1 here I last wrote about defining success, and recognising it when you felt it within. Next on success: Understanding that having satisfaction with…
Keep readingYou’re allowed your own version of success – 1 of 3 short Articles
In coaching sessions, it’s usually important to establish with my clients how they will know they have successfully explored their chosen topic. How they measure this is entirely up to…
Keep readingThe Pressures of learning – What’s at Stake When You’re Told To Show Your Working
When I think about my school days, a time much further away than I’d like to admit to, I have been thinking about the times I needed to learn something…
Keep reading15 Recommendations
There’ll be commentary on the Federal Senate Enquiry into Assessment and support services for people with ADHD over the coming weeks, now that the committee has released their report. I…
Keep readingThe Four States Solve-it grid
So you can get to know me better, I will be including some tools and tips that I have found useful so far to work with my ADHD. ADDitude Mag…
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